Another Visit From Kaitlyn

I have another exciting story of someone else’s dream about Kaitlyn which just occurred last night and I wanted to share this wonderful dream.

I had written months ago, before I had the first dream or sign from Kaitlyn, that a family friend who I knew and trusted had 3 dreams about Kaitlyn. She said that the first one happened about a week after Kaitlyn died but she did not know if she should tell me or not. I did not say who she was because I wanted to keep her anonymous. She told me today that she did not mind who knows that it was her. But this person is my niece Anna. She is close to Kaitlyn’s age. They were not really close, but admired and loved each other very much. They shared a great artistic ability and I think that is why Kaitlyn could connect to her when she could not reach me.

I will retell her first dreams to you in case you don’t remember them or did not see them when I posted them, then I will post what she just emailed to me. Here’s the first dreams:

“Rhonda, I have had three dreams about Kaitlyn. I haven’t said anything because I didn’t know what to think of it or if it was just my mind playing tricks on me. I honestly don’t know if any of this means anything but I really think it does. Also, I dream every night and I’ve dreamed things before and the next day, whatever I dreamed will happen.

So the first dream that I had, it was me you Allyn and Kaitlyn in a small room. Kaitlyn looked like she did before she lost weight and cut her hair. Nobody could see her but me and she was happy and smiling and she told me to tell you that she was there and that she was happy and loved you both very much. She said that she was exactly where she was supposed to be and it was neither of your faults that she did what she did. Then she told me to tell you to hug her so you still couldn’t see her, but you hugged her and I could see it. You were happy, and so was Allyn and Kaitlyn. This dream was the one that was very significant to me.

The second dream is very foggy to me but I just know she was there looking at me.

The third dream was just now because I just woke up, she was sitting down and she looked the way that she did when she died, she was cold and I hugged her to warm her up, the only thing she said was “why haven’t you told my mom?” I know she was talking about the first dream I had and I know that is probably why she keeps appearing in my dreams. Believe me, this sounds as strange to me as it does to you but I think she really wanted me to tell you this. Seems very real to me. I love you and I hope this brings you comfort.”

I can’t tell you how much comfort those dreams brought to me. I believe people that are no longer living on earth can contact people through dreams and I know it was Kaitlyn trying to get a message to me.

Kaitlyn did not contact Anna anymore after this. A few months after she told me this, I started having dreams and signs of Kaitlyn of my own which I cherish that I have written about. Here is what Anna emailed me just now:

“Hey Aunt Rhonda, I had another dream last night so I figured I should go ahead and tell you. It was like Christmas or Thanksgiving and we were all at grandma’s. I was about to walk out the front door and then I saw Kaitlyn walk by me, she tried to keep walking but I stopped her and gave her a hug. It was the same kind of hug she used to give me, like a little squeeze pat on the back deal. Lol. I asked her how she was doing and she once again told me how happy she was and how good she was doing. She then proceeded to tell me how sorry she was to you. So then I ran and got you to tell you she was there and we went in the first bedroom on the right and you couldn’t see her but Kaitlyn gave you a big hug and told you how sorry she was. You started crying and holding your shoulders telling me how you could still feel her hugging you. Then I woke up. I really think that she’s trying to talk to you though I don’t really know why she still comes through me. Either way I like to see her and know she’s ok. I love you so much. I hope this makes you feel better.”

When we have get togethers at my parents’ house, the house is filled to the brim with people and we all talk at the same time. I have 3 sisters, who have children, who have had children and it is very busy and loud. We all have a good time. In later years I noticed Kaitlyn would not talk very much during our big get togethers and I would ask her why and she said that she really did not feel comfortable around big crowds. But she loved them all. The last time Kaitlyn came home for Easter before she died, she was the most talkative and animated that she had been in a big crowd in a long time. Everyone noticed. She even ate a lot. See Kaitlyn was reserved and was better at small crowds. I’m the same way, but I have a big mouth when it comes to my family, just not anywhere else.

I reminded Anna that Kaitlyn was an introvert but loved all of her family. I asked Anna if she looked happy in her dream and she said this:

“I know she was shy. I liked that about her she was more thoughtful than loud like other members of the family. I love her too very much. I was just telling my boyfriend that same thing about the art. She did look happy. She was very happy just like in the first one. She just always wants you to know how sorry she is to have hurt you. She always wants to hug you. But yes very happy and always wants you to know that too. She smiles a lot.”

I just wanted to share this because it makes me feel so good.

I also would like to show some of Anna’s art work. Like Kaitlyn, she is a very talented artist just like her mom and my mom.

The first is a self-portrait. Every time I look at Anna, I see Kaitlyn. The next one is another of Anna’s works.

Anna's art

About gatito2

My name is Rhonda. I'm a registered nurse, for the last 20 years, that has not been able to work since the day I learned of my daughter's death by suicide 4-12-13. (She actually died 4-11-13 and her body was not found until the 12th) Me and my husband have been married for 32 years and he's a wonderful man. We grieve in different ways. He works, I write. This is my journey through this horrible land of losing a child..
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16 Responses to Another Visit From Kaitlyn

  1. Missy's Crafty Mess says:

    Wow chilling. The one dream I have had about my Sister left me with such a feeling of peace and contentment. Thank you so much for sharing. It’s nice to know that we are not alone.


  2. lensgirl53 says:

    Ohhh, I am so very glad for you. I still pray to have dreams but along with that has come some that I don’t know what to make of but then there are those that are absolutely marvelous and I don’t want to wake up, but the oddest of all is the dreams that people who have never met Brandon have had. I have had two people tell me dreams that were definitely true to who he was and they were about him in Heaven. I know just how you feel and thank you for sharing because I so want you to feel at peace. Yes, Kaitlyn is with God who has her in His all encompassing arms. Feel her warmth and hugs and cherish the messages. If you have time and want to know about a God-wink that I have received please read my post, “It Is Well….” Even though we are in our grief, our children are happy and perfect…..xo dale


  3. gatito2 says:

    Thank you. She’s reaching me through me and my niece.


  4. luciddream85 says:

    That’s amazing. I’ve only ever had one dream about my grandma, about a week after she died, where she walked out of the woods, gave me a hug and I said “are you okay?” and she said “Hell yeah. I’m better than okay” which is the way she talked lol. Those kinds of dreams always bring such comfort to those of us that miss them.


  5. gatito2 says:

    I will do that Dale, thank you.


  6. gatito2 says:

    Wow, I love that! At least she visited you and you know she’s ok.


  7. I J L says:

    The part about her being exactly where she’s supposed to be is so moving. It also frightens me because sometimes I wonder if I’m the same way, if I should just die so I’ll finally be where I belong and have something like peace. Or am I just telling myself that? When a friend died, I dreamed that he didn’t know it and was horrified and anguished to discover he was dead. It was an awful nightmare.

    I think it’s telling that people in your lives have had such dreams about Kaitlyn. She obviously meant so many things to so many people, and was so dearly loved. I hope everyone is able to keep her in their hearts, and share her story wherever they go.


  8. gatito2 says:

    Thank you for your touching comments but I do not want you to think that there is somewhere else you need to be other than on this earth. Kaitlyn had no visions of her going anywhere except out of existence when she died. She had lost the hope of many things. But she wound up in paradise which, since she could not stay here, paradise is what she deserved. But she didn’t leave to go somewhere else, she just wanted out of her pain.


  9. jmgoyder says:

    I think this is wonderful!


  10. lensgirl53 says:

    I failed to mention that the art work is extremely good. Your niece is a gifted artist. I hope one day to see some of Kaitlyn’s art.


  11. gatito2 says:

    Thank you. I have posted Kaitlyn’s art work here before, have you seen it? If not I can post it again. Let me know.


  12. lensgirl53 says:

    No, I have not come across where you have posted them. I would love to see her work. Thank you.


  13. gatito2 says:

    I will post some then. 🙂


  14. J. says:

    This is a great post. It is of Buddhist belief that when someone dies, they are free of any ailments that troubled them on earth. Like cancer, depressing, addiction, etc. Wherever Kaitlyn is, she is free of those ailments and that’s a powerful feeling to know.


  15. gatito2 says:

    That is a comforting thought.


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